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My order

Occasionally I get a burst and let myself go. Today, for example, I have knocked down all my toys, those that usually hang from several chains on the walls of my little homemade dungeon. My bitch knows I want them arranged in a very specific way, not only for aesthetics, but for my comfort. But this weekend she was doing general cleaning and I found everything changed. Going to find a whip, a paddle, a flogger… and lose half an hour finding where everything is? I welcome cleaning, but she knows I love my order and everything seemed to have been placed in a hurry. So, when she returns from … Continue reading

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Traits

We seek strong emotions, that “something else” we don’t find in the vanilla world. For many people a conventional relationship is enough, but others need to go beyond the syrup and apple pies. When I was not aware of something called FemDom, tried to stifle my instincts and ended by thinking I was a weirdo, because the behavior of the women in my environment was very different from mine and my tastes were shocking for them (and not just in sexual sphere). There are several anecdotes in my teens I jealously concealed considering that bitterness of being “different” (and further considering that those were different times, today things have changed). … Continue reading

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By the way…

When a slave behaves as if his relationship with me were already something safe and immovable, neglecting his attention to me in breach of any of these obligations he allows himself to think that can be judged as unimportant and installs in the comfort of knowing that he’ll see me every week, or he convinces himself that giving me a whim will be enough to overlook his faults… When the bearer of my collar considers that there is no need to give me explanations or avoid doing it because I’m busy with a thousand other things and I will not take it into account… I can be forgiving once, but that does not mean I always will … Continue reading

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Power and control

Do you know that feeling when, even though everything seems in order, there is something wrong or that fades without knowing yet what it is, but alarms start shooting within? I hate that feeling. I like my stuff clear and diaphanous and when something is fuzzy, I wear pocker face until everything is defined. This applies to almost anything: a comment, a friend, a slave… I’m sure someone will already have taken the hint. I usually go leaving tracks when I’m upset and, normally, the blame of my discomfort, however short he can be, finishes for taking headlong into what’s coming for him. So I give him a range to rectify, because … Continue reading

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Agree a blackmail

I don’t know if what happens is that I do not express myself clearly or that some guys are very short of mind. Well, actually I do know To all those who don’t know how to interpret what they read, I clarify them that no, I don’t blackmail all my slaves. It’s a practice reserved for a few and, like any other, I don’t want to do it with everyone. In fact, none of the slaves I already have inspire me a blackmail, just as I don’t feminize all my properties and I don’t want more 24/7 servants than the bitch who occupies that place. Each slave brings me different things, so I … Continue reading

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