Being a submissive is not to be willing to please Mistress in all those things you want she makes you, but to be useful in all what the Mistress wants, requires or needs. This includes sexual services and sexual (or not), but is not limited to this topic.
The Mistress plays with your voracity (I’m very much in favor of tease and denial) and adapts it to her, satisfying her instincts through the manipulation of yours.
Whether your libido is satisfied or not, I do not want only a sexual submission of my slaves. I respect those who choose it, but if you’re mine, you’re mine in a session, having coffee on a terrace or in the line at the supermarket.
Another thing is that I’m infatuated with someone and use him for a while without major implications. But my sense of ownership and possession are not limited to the sexual level. And I say that not limited because it’s not excluded.
There are very illuminating phrases such as “I am ready to please you in facesitting, spanking, etc..” Are you willing to please me in what you want me to do? Are you willing to be pleased at what attracts you?
I don’t like listings of practices. I like improvisation and enjoy checking how far I can get you 😉