There are those that aim to surrender a D/s relationship that fit to the nearest millimeter to their preferences, but they enjoy talking with Mistresses and their bodies respond to it, they wonder why searches are not consummated. They finish lamenting their fate and, although they can get an appointment and even some occasional session, continue their search like lost souls.
On the other side are those who manage to feel the magic of having met that special Woman and will no longer mind getting or not a D/s relationship so they can say they are owned, but to live it and enjoy it, even if that Woman is sadistic, allthough that Women have very different preferences or whims than their own, although She seems distant at times and passionate others. All that matters now is to follow her feet, please her, pamper her even getting some contempts occasionally, strive for draw smiles on her face, make her happy.
Do you capture the difference? I’m telling you should seek magic, chemistry, passion, not any Mistress.
You can just surrender your body and enjoy those moments, but if you find a Women that get to beat your whole being, will you keep looking for another one?