Why to resign ourselves and settle for what is expected of us?
I was born at a time when the restrictions on women in Spain were tremendous. During my teens I was attacked as a rebel because I did not girded to conventions were trying to impose on me. I fought hard to make my life my way, but along the way I made mistakes that today, knowing a little more than then, I would avoid.
But my mistakes are mine and they are also part of me, like my achievements.
I defended my independence against all odds, even when the consequences were bitter.
There were many people in my life, from all countries, of every race, of all ideologies. I went through all kinds of episodes, good and bad … And all those things, in addition to decisions I was taking at all times, created CruelDama.
I still defend my independence and squeeze my life drop by drop. Because I have a life I like to live and to savor.
My illusions are intact, as my desire to do all those things I love and all that other stuff that I have yet to live.
No, my life has not been a fairy tale, but I never resigned myself to be what was expected to be, I had always clear that a conventional life was not for me. My white knights are so because I squeeze their balls until they get the tone I want 😉