Category Archives: tease and denial

The power of desire – Tease and denial

Grant and deny. Excite and brake. Take to the limit and repress. Tease… and denial. Being in control includes my games with the sex of my slave. And I am not referring solely to his genitals, but also to impose and decide when I want him to ejaculate, how, how often, if he deserves that award or I flatly deny. His pain belongs to me, but his pleasure is mine too. Maintaining the slave into a prolonged arousal can induce him to a pleasant state that, as in the case of a chastity period, increases his submission. Although in very different ways. In fact, completely opposed. I got a new … Continue reading

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Alternative sexuality

Most submissives who contact us seek instant satisfaction. In fact, although I don’t know the exact numbers, the percentage of people who arrive to FemDom and BDSM looking for sex sites on the internet is incredibly high. There is nothing wrong with visiting porn sites (unless you’re under control and have no such permission 😀 ). The sex industry keeps moving masses every minute. But, although FemDom is for many of us an alternative lifestyle in which sex has a lot to do, either forcing, manipulating, denying it, strengthening it, playing with the desire or whatever the way in which everyone decides to live it, it’s not just a matter of … Continue reading

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Days to remember

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Seriousness and eroticism

Who does not like to eroticize certain moments that will become special? Elicit responses in everyday situations like a dared comment publicly to provoke an involuntary erection in the slave accompanying me, leave him blank with a whatsapp that only he will understand, drying his throat with a gesture for him to intuit he’s going to be punished although still does not know how… There are many spicy ways and I am very playful 😉 I like protocol and the seriousness of the things I do, however I don’t let solemnity stops me from enjoying my games, just the opposite. I am serious and sharp when I consider it’s appropriate, … Continue reading

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To be or not to be

We can be visceral and, at the same time, have enough self-control to know what we do at every moment and how we channel our emotions. Being Dominant does not mean losing your composure, do not have to do with being a screamer, not a rude or embittered woman. Sometimes a look is enough to get the result we want, we can exercise power with a whisper in which are embedded a few words that trigger the urge to please us, we manage to capture the attention with a gesture, teach our submissives and slaves (each with our methods) they strive to provide a satisfactory service. It is also true that there are … Continue reading

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