Being a professional Domme

lickMany Dommes contact me asking about the best way to start in FemDom and Financial Domination in a professional way so I’ll tell you that, besides your skills, the first thing you have to consider is what resources you have to do so.

Being present online is indispensable nowadays. Social networks and thematic pages are not only a great way to keep in touch with people all over the world, but also to learn from others and being known.

No need to start with a website with your own domain and hosting, because that means hiring both services. There is no doubt that having a site with your nickname and a .com domain makes a big difference, but today there are many online sites where you can create your own free page very simply based on templates that, although include any annoying advertisement, it will provide a starting point.

Furthermore, there is also the possibility of creating a blog on Blogger or WordPress very easily (until I migrated them to my website, my blogs were on Blogger for several years). And here I warn you that although my blogs work with WordPress, they are on wordpress.org (paid platform), not wordpress.com (free). The difference is that wordpress.com does not allow adult content and may remove your blog with all your work in the trash at any time, while using wordpress.org you do what you want on your site with no more restrictions than, for example, the Law on Cookies and some other technicalities that you will learn quickly.

It’s important that your potential customers see something of you, and I don’t mean just your wonderful personalities, but here we must note the visual that men are (and much more the fetishist ones). You don’t need to show your whole face, there are many ways to shot, but your own pictures are a must. What kind of photos? Well, that depends on where you’ll focus your professionalism: whether real sessions or it will be virtual FemDom or Financial Domination with many or few fetishes in terms of equipment and clothing.

And besides the outfit, need a place to work, a dungeon or a room intended for such purpose with the more suitable decoration to your intentions (furniture, tools, etc.). If you don’t have your own place, there are beautiful dungeons for hire where you’ll have great times with submissives. Or, if what you will do is online Domination, get a good webcam, lighting and sound equipment, make yourself beautiful and enjoy.

Watch out for the huge amount of submissives who pretend to be personal slaves, that is, seeking to wear your collar without spending a penny. It’s great to own slaves, I myself own several, but if what you want is to be a professional Femdom or Findom, make it clear that you don’t need personal slaves or otherwise you’ll be entertaining them hour after hour in exchange for nothing. And your clothes and fetishes (not to mention bills) are not paid for themselves 😉

Interacting with other Ladies is important, as well as attending an event from time to time. You need others to see that you are real, human, not robots with heels repeating all the same. Look at what the others do, but do not copy them. Develop your own Domination, because that will be your brand.

Not good to put all subs with the same brush, since each one is different from the others, even though there may be many things in common. Some of them love humiliation, for example, but others do not enjoy it. Inquire, do not be afraid to ask, because only in that way will get everything to be perfect. And, of course, respect the limits of the submissives who come to you absolutely always.

And these are some basic things to keep in mind. There are many others, but I have no doubt that you are smart women and will avoid obstacles as they arise. Best wishes to all :)

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